She could have mortgaged her future to hate . instead , she forgave her husband and wished him well. I was skeptical . “se he married a sexy young sterlet . would you wish him to be happy with her ? “
This does not mean my friend has entirely forgotten the hurt . in fact , forgetting too soon may be a dangerous way to escape forgiving’s inner surgery . once we have forgiven , however , forgiving is a sign of health . we can forget , evevtually , bacause we are healed .