badun
发表于 2008-7-30 09:42
1. Change your tone of voice.For 30 seconds, speak softer, calmer, or just more pleasantly. You might be surprised at the results. Did you know, for example, that a softer voice giving clear instructions commands more authority with children than a yell? If frustrated in a business dealing, try a more peaceful tone, even if only for 30 seconds, and see if it leads to a quicker resolution.
1. 改变你的语气。只用30秒,使用更柔和、更冷静的语气,或是任何一种听上去更舒服的说话方式。你也许会为所发生的一切感到惊讶。比如,你是否了解,在孩子们的心目中,用柔和的声调给出清楚的指示比大吼大叫更能让你获得威严。如果在一次商业交易中出师不利,可以尝试在接下来的30秒内使用更平和的语调,然后观察这能否促使事情更快地得到解决。
badun
发表于 2008-7-30 09:42
2. Choose one idea you gave up and re-visit it. For 30 seconds, consider giving it one more try. Was there an invention, a project, or some task that just seemed too daunting or frustrating? Choose one and decide to try it one more time. Imagine if everyone mustered up the courage to use their God-given ingenuity in whatever their giftings. What new things would the world see created?
2. 选择一个你已经放弃的想法,然后重新思考它。用30秒的时间考虑再试一次。是否曾经有一项发明,一个项目,或是某些任务令人望而生畏,或是让人沮丧?选择其中一个,然后再次捡起它。想想看,如果每个人都鼓足勇气,在自己具备才能的方面充分运用了上天赋予的创造力,将会给这个世界带来多少新的东西?
badun
发表于 2008-7-30 09:42
3. For 30 seconds, give someone another chance. Listen for just one more time, re-evaluate a first impression, or give one more opportunity to see if they have changed. You may be surprised.
3. 用30秒钟,给他人一次机会。也许只需要再倾听一遍,重新调整一下第一印象,或是再用一次机会去发现他们是否已经作出改变。你会感到惊奇的。
badun
发表于 2008-7-30 09:42
4. Tell your children “I love you” or “I am proud of you”. Make it meaningful, look them in the eye, and show how you value them. It will mean the world. Imagine if every parent said affirming words to every child, for 30 seconds, everyday.
4. 告诉你的孩子们"我爱你"或"我为你感到骄傲"。让这样的表达成为一次有意义的事件,看着他们的眼睛,让他们知道他们对你来说有多么重要。这样做将意义非凡。想想如果所有的父母每天花30秒的时间对他们的孩子们说一些肯定的话,世界将会如何。
badun
发表于 2008-7-30 09:42
5. The next time you find yourself wanting instant gratification, impatiently wanting something you cannot have at that moment, give thanks to God for what you already do have for 30 seconds. It may change your attitude.
5. 下次你再发现自己在急切等待他人对你的肯定,而又不可能立即拥有的时候,用30秒来为你已经完成的事情感谢上帝。这能迅速改变你的态度。
badun
发表于 2008-7-30 09:42
6. For 30 seconds, stand up straighter and with your head held high. Look others in the eye and walk with confidence. See how great it feels?
6. 用30秒,站得更直,将你的头高高抬起。直视他人,自信地行走。有没有发现这样感觉非常棒?
badun
发表于 2008-7-30 09:43
7. Choose one thing you were putting off for another time that could be done today, and decide to do it! It only takes 30 seconds to make a decision to act. Be sure you value keeping your promise to yourself, and then know that this will lead to action.
7. 选择一件你一直在拖延着准备下次再做而今天可以完成的事情,决定完成它!做出一个行动的决定只需要30秒。前提必须是你十分看重对自己的承诺,并且一旦承诺则意味着付出行动。
badun
发表于 2008-7-30 09:43
8. Clean up someone else’s mess.
8.清理一次他人惹下的乱子。
badun
发表于 2008-7-30 09:43
9. Compliment someone with a genuine comment on what you appreciate or respect about them.
9. 对他人就你一直欣赏或敬重的某一点表示真诚的赞美。
badun
发表于 2008-7-30 09:43
10. Stand up for someone or something you believe in. A quick sentence of support can do wonders and expand your influence.
10. 为你信仰的某人或某事挺身而出。一句简短的表示支持的话会带来奇迹,迅速扩大你的影响。